Approach dating as an exploratory journey not as a predetermined destination the more you appreciate the unexpected element of dating the more likely you will be to keep your heart open to the different options for love that cross your path.
Keep my options open instead of waiting around for a man to make plans or sit around analyzing why hes constantly coming forward and then moving away i.
We were not even in a relationship and i was stuck its ok to keep options open while dating he said several things to me the other day that made me think maybe i should start keeping my options open and not get too stuck and just enjoy the time that i have with him when i am with him and thats exactly what i should start doing.
Why keeping your options open is a really really bad idea people believe that keeping your options open is the best way to ensure happiness and success but people as it turns out are wrong.
We keep our options open we bridge we date other men heres a letter from debbie a few months ago i reconnected with a man that i dated briefly back in the fall last year he was the one that ended it with no explanation.
And im not a carrie samantha charlotte or miranda im me and i dont need to date a bunch of guys or keep my options open to feel as though i know what im doing when it comes to dating i dont but thats okay by dating one guy at a time i know ill eventually find my own mr big.
Chances are the guys youre dating are dating other girls as well if you get too invested in one guy youll be devastated if he chooses someone else dont put all your eggs in one basket.
Then just follow my two rules keep your options open and keep the focus on you keeping your options open by dating i mean continue to flirt with men and accept invitations to meet for coffee or have dinner.
Lets face it things happen and a date cancelation is bound to occur at some point but if the guy youre seeing is canceling your dates over and over again it could definitely be.